Practicing What I Preach

SO life is definitely not easy and definitely not fair.  None the less, I am grateful for all I have but that doesn't mean that sometimes I don't feel hurt and used and unappreciated.

Where should I start....
 First is always BREATHE!!! This allows for oxygen in the brain and time for clarity and wisdom before I speak and react. 
Second is THINK!!! Think before you speak. Don't react but respond....
Third is SMILE!!! thank goodness this is so natural for me, because today the third of things has struck and it is hard to smile... 

Yes, all the problems I have are first world problems but those are the ones I have that are right in front of me... 

REMIND ME: That is a lesson, It is Right in Front of Me.... I digress....

Life is short. 9 days ago my nephew, my nieces significant other, was in a terrible motorcycle accident. It has been a daily walk of faith and encouragement and I am most impressed how grateful my niece is. She is showing gratitude when it is difficult for me and this is her difficult situation. She is grateful for the nurses, for the family and friends and all that she has. She is excited with each wonderful improvement he has. She is an inspiring example.... LOVE YOU JESS!!!

Than I have my own issue of rejection. That is so hard. It reminds me of the priorities I believe in and tried to instill in my children. The hard part is when the each move on and well some of what you taught was not caught. My motto has always been - Do What's Right - Be Your Best!.  God First, Family and friends second and I am third. Be honest, be kind, and honor and respect yourself. Lord thank you that you are in control...

​My first world problem of being a team player. Don't mistake my team playing and be kind as being weak...